Overall, I have had generally positive experiences while tarp hopping with my usual group of myself and 2 other people. However, last year I had a definitely negative experience. Since my experiences have been mostly positive, I didn’t want to ruffle any feathers by bringing up this bad experience. But, after having a conversation about said incident and tarps in general with my fiancee (who was there) I decided to go ahead and make a post. This happened last year at the YMSB main stage show.
My g/f and I were volunteers and had just barely made it up to the festival grounds in time for YMSB. We hunted around for the most open tarp we could find, which is a tough mission during the afternoon YMSB show even with plenty of time. Right as the band was coming out on stage, we found a spot we liked and asked if we could use it. It was a small corner of a fairly large tarp with a fair bit of room. We are not huge people, and were taking up at most 10% of the total tarp area, and we had also secured permission from one of the tarp owners. The show started amicably enough, and the tarp we were on started to fill up. About 15 minutes into the show, a middle aged gentleman with a small child in tow bumped into us and told us (VERY impolitely) that we were going to have to move, this was his tarp and he’d waited all night for it (un-likely due to the positioning of the tarp, it was not exactly on the front lines) so he could have a good spot for the show. We apologized and tried to get as much off the tarp as we could but by this point, the grounds had filled up and there was very little room to move about. After some readjustment we were barely on the tarp at all, however it was apparently not good enough for this man. He glared at us several times, and when that did not succeed in removing us from the vicinity he proceeded to “dance” about wildly with his various extremities flailing around. Much of his exuberant gesticulation found its way onto my g/f, seemingly on purpose judging by the looks he was giving us, and his manner in demanding we move (again, VERY rudely). In essence, he was attempting to remove us from the vicinity using physical force. This went on for the entire show, and effectively ruined a large percentage of our day. Dancing is one thing, but during a crowded show (like Yonder always is) that type of dancing disturbs people’s festival experience.
My issue with this circumstance was not that we were asked to move. I understand that it is the right of whoever placed the tarp to use the space as they see fit. My main issue is with the way we were treated. He did not ask nicely. He didn’t ask at all, it was a demand, something you’d expect from a pair of siblings under the age of 10 in the back seat of a mini van (“MOMMY TELL HIM TO GET OFF MY SIDE!”), not something you’d expect from a 30’s something adult. I also take issue with his action after we got as far off as we could physically get without completely changing locations (thereby disturbing more people in our attempt to get ourselves out of the area). Even if his aggressive physical behavior had been unintentional (which I do NOT believe), he could have been (and probably was) knocking around several other people who were NOT encroaching on his tarp.
This type of behavior exemplifies a self centered existence which is the complete antithesis of the Festivarian spirit. Had he asked politely it would have been a completely different story. Were we sprawled out over half his tarp, it again would have been a different set of circumstances, but even in that instance his physical violence would not have been merited. It’s totally opposite of everything that the festival stands for and everything that I love about the Telluride experience.
I don’t intend this as an assault against any person or group of people. I don’t know where that man camped, and wouldn’t care if I did (a rude person is rude no matter where he calls home).
I know that the majority of festivarians and tarp owners are not like this particular gentleman. I have enjoyed tarp hoping in the past, I’ve met some really interesting people, shared beer, food, stories and other things with many many people, and hope to do so again, especially now that I’m in Town Park for the first time in my 6 years of Festivating.
Again, I hope no one takes this as a personal attack, as it is just me venting my frustration over one particular person.
I want to leave this post on a happy note, so…
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